Comments on: 12 Tips for Creating a Happy Long Lasting Relationship

By: Larry Hochman

Larry Hochman — Wed, 15 Jan 2014 22:30:30 +0000

Wow!!! It’s not just that I really like Jodi Picoult because we grew up in the same neighborhood (inside baseball…she’s one of the nicest people you’ll ever meet).

But the whole myth of an egalitarian relationship where everything is perfectly symmetrical, it just doesn’t make sense. The best marriages have flexibility and fun built into them. A great reminder! Thanks, Tess.

By: Tess

Tess — Mon, 13 Jan 2014 20:12:13 +0000

Sandra,
Thanks for your kind words. I think your check-ins are a wonderful way to connect. Dream on! It’s so much fun!

By: Sandra Pawula

Sandra Pawula — Mon, 13 Jan 2014 19:42:46 +0000

There’s so much personal experience and wisdom in these suggestions, Tess. I feel like you’ve learned so much in your 42 years of marriage that can be so beneficial for the rest of us.

I’m especially loving the idea of dreaming together. My husband and I have started having weekly or bi-weekly check in meetings where we check-in about our emotions, our practical affairs, and our dreams too. They are a wonderful way to stay connected!

By: Tess

Tess — Mon, 13 Jan 2014 19:11:08 +0000

Hi Julie,
I hear you. However, everyone is a lot happier when you shift your perception. It comes down to, would you rather be happy or right? You can’t have both. Practice taking the high road. Watch how life opens up!

By: Julie

Julie — Mon, 13 Jan 2014 18:13:42 +0000

How perfit and fitting to come across this blog today — currently dealing with some struggles in my relationship. My biggest problem is refusing to let go of my stubborness and pride. I’m working it, I think.