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Keep on finding your inner harmony

Everyone’s different, so people will have different expectations and preferences of life. Some people enjoy singing harmonies, whereas other don’t as much. But everyone has a right to be true to themselves, whether they want it or not.

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‘We are what we repeatedly do’ is right, but a few people are so obsessed with projecting a different person that they have become extremely good at it. However, despite their skill, they are only succeeding in extending the link between their outward mask and their true self.

Fear is the logic behind this – if they fear people rejecting them, they’ll do whatever it takes to get people to like them, even if it doesn’t work out in the long run.

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You’re right, many people have varying phases in their lives which they go through as they learn more and more about themselves. It’s like trying on new clothes each time, until you find a look that fits you the best.

I’m a lot more confident now, but nowhere near as louder. Sure I talk more, but I now know when to talk, and what to say.

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I like how the lead dog isn’t ‘loud’, that sums up what I’m saying nicely. Quiet confidence is detectable by all. It doesn’t take a loud voice to be heard.

Thanks for your wonderful insights Jt, and it’s been a pleasure to connect with you recently
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I don’t usually associate ‘bold’ with ‘sexy’ but perhaps I should more often! Thank you for adding that to the conversation here.

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As Jt noted in training dogs, the same is true of training horses. Animals know when we’re being incongruent – when what we say doesn’t match what’s really going on inside. Loud conveys an internal fear which scares animals (and people). Internal confidence (boldness) conveys leadership and makes training easier. And, as Jt noted, the same applies for people.

Being loud comes from a need to be something other than who we believe we are. Being bold comes from a knowing deep within and it’s very powerful.

Great post, Stuart!
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