Comments on: Fearless By Dr. Brenda Shoshanna PhD

By: Betsy @ zen-mama.com

Betsy @ zen-mama.com — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 17:07:08 +0000

Tess,
I’m so happy to win the book. It reminds me a little of my book for mothers. Mine is a simple read and I’m looking forward to delving into FEARLESS.
Thanks so much!
Betsy

By: HappinessandWisdom

HappinessandWisdom — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 00:33:20 +0000

Thanks for the comprehensive review. I will definitely read this book. I am continually shocked by the limitations I see others put on themselves, because of the many fears they have. Many of these fears are based solely on assumption and interpretation. If this book is a great a resource as it sounds, I will definitely be sharing it with others! Thanks
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By: Nea | Self Improvement Saga

Nea | Self Improvement Saga — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 23:53:22 +0000

Hi Tess. I can’t wait to read this book. I love the quote you listed from chapter 3, “There is nothing wrong with falling down, being wrong, making a fool of yourself.” This book seems like one that will fit perfectly during this transitional phase of my life. Thanks for posting the review.
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By: Stacey Shipman

Stacey Shipman — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 13:42:45 +0000

Thank you for sharing this book…I want to pick it up, it is in line with where I am now.

Fear is something I’ve been “working with” ever since I quit my job and every fear I “hid” bubbled to the surface! I recently stopped running (as physical activity) in part because of physical pain. But the emotional realization has been tremendous about how running was a metaphor for me and my fear. I’m no longer “running” from my fear. Instead I’m able to be with it and the discomfort and recognize more often than not this is where I’m supposed to be. It’s powerful. My biggest fear that I deal with is actually similar to Peggy – not being good enough. And I know that goes way back in time to when I was a little girl. How our pasts follow us and try to haunt us!

By: Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord

Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 13:03:58 +0000

I definitely want to read this book! This really struck a chord with me because just last night I was talking to a friend about how: “We create masks to meet the masks of others. Then we wonder why we cannot love and why we feel so alone…” My gosh, and then the advice of facing fear by (to quote Joy Holland from her guest post on Evolving Beings) “dancing with it.” What incredible synchronicity that this week I’m surrounded by “overcoming fear.” And I have, Tess! I’ve been acting more boldly, and the results are out of this world!

Love you, my friend!
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By: Tess

Tess — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 05:48:11 +0000

Angela,
When I was a practicing psychologist I heard this fear from every woman over 40 I saw. The closer we come to mid-life the more women fear the worst. As I’m typing this I’m thinking. What’s the big deal we have room mates like when we were younger. I swear If I have to go to assissted living or a nursing home I’m going to the same one my sisters or girlfriends are going too. I’ll make it a blast if I have to;)

Evita,
I love it that you don’t see it as a duality and if we’re alive we’re a success. You are so wise and honest and caring. I’m going to follow your lead and enjoy my own journey and going deeper. We were sisters in another life time;)

Lori,
You go ahead and call me anytime you want and I’ll help you laugh at your fears. We’re bigger than them. ROFLOL It might not be easy to go with the flow with love and grace but you’re doing it! Love ya! xo

Peggy,
You are so right on and you don’t have to tell me cuz I know they love you and so do I. You are blessed and it’s wonderful how you share your blessings with others.

Matt,
I’m writing down you yoga message. Thanks for sharing it. I’m putting it on an index card in case I forget. It’s funny how things we know take on more meaning certain moment. Let go of grasping. Let go of control and domination. My hands are empty and open. Thanks for your message. God sent you to me;)

Brenda,
Wow a disservice to me and others. That’s well put and a big insight to remember. We’re not doing our earthly job when we shrink and hold back. Thanks for stopping by again. You’re the best!

By: Brenda

Brenda — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 03:38:28 +0000

I actually ordered the book…it is definitely my cup of tea~!

I forgot to mention that my biggest fear has always been of being big and powerful in the world. I know that I share this with many of us on this path.
I work with it by using affirmations and by the line from Nike, “Just do it!”. I know that I was born to shine my light and it is dishonoring to myself and my fellow humans night to do so. So here I am … shinning!

Love,
Brenda
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By: SenseiMattKlein

SenseiMattKlein — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 00:17:09 +0000

Letting go of grasping–this is what they are constantly trying to impart to us in yoga class, the “what’s in it for me” mentality. Being happy with the present and what you have is the key to happiness.
Letting Go of Control and Domination–you cannot control it so why worry about it. If we could realize this we’d be a lot happier. Seeing the uniqueness in other people and their viewpoints as you say, Tess, is a big step in this direction.

By: Peggy Nolan

Peggy Nolan — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 19:55:34 +0000

Hi Tess!

My biggest fear has stemmed from the “I’m not good enough” fear – or the fear of being rejected. These days I look upon that fear as a compassionate observer. It still tries to niggle me, but the truth is there is way too much evidence to the contrary. I married to the love of my life, I have a great family, I am loved…when it comes to my writing and my fear “who wants to read what I write anyway?” is proven incorrect because I see who’s reading what I’m writing…they write to me, they listen to my radio show, they come to my workshops…FEAR…just another name for False Evidence Appearing Real…

xo
Peggy
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By: Lori

Lori — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 17:00:57 +0000

Hi Tess,
This seems odd to me looking back, but I can remember spending a lot of time with my former employees helping them transition when our little start-up company was acquired by a much bigger company. The change was drastic and couldn’t be avoided. I thrived with change, but was constantly surprised how difficult is was for my employees.

The reason this seems so odd, is that now that I am facing intense change, personally, it seems much harder to go with the flow and accept with love and grace.

To be quite candid (since you asked…) I’m afraid of loosing my ability to walk. I’m afraid of loosing clear-headed thinking. I’m afraid of the potential of advancing disability. How do I alleviate my fear? I ask for help when I need it. I do my best to live in the moment. I laugh as much as I can. (I call you.)

Thanks for this, I want to read this book and I will.
~xo
.-= Lori´s last post…Describe Your Awesomeness =-.