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		<title>By: Hilary</title>
		<link>http://theboldlife.com/2009/09/its-all-about-you/comment-page-1/#comment-2219</link>
		<dc:creator>Hilary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 07:17:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tess .. yes - I&#039;d have loved to be me today .. ie aged 30 or so .. in this day and age, then I wonder what my life would have been like?  Being English, middle class and somewhat held back by my surroundings and expectations didn&#039;t make things easy. 

However I always moved on and did different things not terribly successfully, and I probably didn&#039;t learn - as the resources we have now weren&#039;t available etc .. 

Now - life is interesting, full of challenges, full of opportunity despite two people now in hospitals .. my mother is amazing and my uncle too .. I&#039;m lucky

After I&#039;ll need to put into action my &#039;mapped&#039; future that I&#039;ve been able to mull about during this time .. there&#039;s not much time - but thoughts can be there all the time - do we make the most of our thoughts?

Thanks - Hilary Melton-Butcher
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tess .. yes &#8211; I&#8217;d have loved to be me today .. ie aged 30 or so .. in this day and age, then I wonder what my life would have been like?  Being English, middle class and somewhat held back by my surroundings and expectations didn&#8217;t make things easy. </p>
<p>However I always moved on and did different things not terribly successfully, and I probably didn&#8217;t learn &#8211; as the resources we have now weren&#8217;t available etc .. </p>
<p>Now &#8211; life is interesting, full of challenges, full of opportunity despite two people now in hospitals .. my mother is amazing and my uncle too .. I&#8217;m lucky</p>
<p>After I&#8217;ll need to put into action my &#8216;mapped&#8217; future that I&#8217;ve been able to mull about during this time .. there&#8217;s not much time &#8211; but thoughts can be there all the time &#8211; do we make the most of our thoughts?</p>
<p>Thanks &#8211; Hilary Melton-Butcher<br />
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		<title>By: Omar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Omar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2009 16:24:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Life is fun and fascinating. There are good and bad moments. But we have to enjoy it. We don&#039;t know when we&#039;ll breathe our last breath.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life is fun and fascinating. There are good and bad moments. But we have to enjoy it. We don&#8217;t know when we&#8217;ll breathe our last breath.<br />
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		<title>By: Jannie Funster</title>
		<link>http://theboldlife.com/2009/09/its-all-about-you/comment-page-1/#comment-2193</link>
		<dc:creator>Jannie Funster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 21:16:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As to this post I have 5 words.  Yes.  Yes. Yes. Yes. And yes.

Time and time again my thoughts show me that how I look at things is how they&#039;ll be.

If I&#039;m whining and moaning, it&#039;ll be tough.  But if I open my consciousness it&#039;s usually a breeze.

Now, I hardly ever whine or moan anymore of course, because I&#039;m so durn enlightened with all this blog reading.  Actually, some have commented to me that I&#039;m almost too enlightened to remain on this planet in my human form.   So I often don my wings and flit among the stars.  It&#039;s &#039;way cool out there. 

My only wish is for a roundabout close by. 

We do have a nice piano stool to spin on tho.
.-= Jannie Funster´s last post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.janniefunster.com/2009/09/14/its-all-picnics-and-cartwheels-until-the-fire-ants-bite/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;It’s All Picnics And Cartwheels Until The Fire Ants Bite&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As to this post I have 5 words.  Yes.  Yes. Yes. Yes. And yes.</p>
<p>Time and time again my thoughts show me that how I look at things is how they&#8217;ll be.</p>
<p>If I&#8217;m whining and moaning, it&#8217;ll be tough.  But if I open my consciousness it&#8217;s usually a breeze.</p>
<p>Now, I hardly ever whine or moan anymore of course, because I&#8217;m so durn enlightened with all this blog reading.  Actually, some have commented to me that I&#8217;m almost too enlightened to remain on this planet in my human form.   So I often don my wings and flit among the stars.  It&#8217;s &#8216;way cool out there. </p>
<p>My only wish is for a roundabout close by. </p>
<p>We do have a nice piano stool to spin on tho.<br />
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		<title>By: Caroline</title>
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		<dc:creator>Caroline</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 04:21:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your Mom was right!  Life is what we make it!  And, so much of life is perception.  I have finally began to realize that all I have to do is change my thinking.  Which usually requires some sort of action...but it&#039;s good to be proactive.  Thank you again for getting me thinking!
.-= Caroline´s last post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://whimsywispers.blogspot.com/2009/09/offering.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Offering&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your Mom was right!  Life is what we make it!  And, so much of life is perception.  I have finally began to realize that all I have to do is change my thinking.  Which usually requires some sort of action&#8230;but it&#8217;s good to be proactive.  Thank you again for getting me thinking!<br />
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		<title>By: Sell Your Phone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sell Your Phone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 23:31:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice article. You are a great great write. Really appreciated reading this.
.-= Sell Your Phone´s last post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://sellyourphone.info/mobile-cell-phone-recycling/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Mobile Cell Phone Recycling&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice article. You are a great great write. Really appreciated reading this.<br />
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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 21:34:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just have to ask: is it The Bold Life just because or does it have anything to do with your family name? My last name is Bold (for serious! :) ) so when I see references to &quot;Bold&quot; - like your blog title, it always makes me smile.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just have to ask: is it The Bold Life just because or does it have anything to do with your family name? My last name is Bold (for serious! <img src='http://theboldlife.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  ) so when I see references to &#8220;Bold&#8221; &#8211; like your blog title, it always makes me smile.</p>
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		<title>By: Daphne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daphne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 19:48:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for sharing this. I am struggling with these questions and I will return to read more of what you have to say!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for sharing this. I am struggling with these questions and I will return to read more of what you have to say!</p>
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		<title>By: janice</title>
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		<dc:creator>janice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 10:38:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s good to be back - and what an excellent post to find when I visited! A life coach&#039;s guide to life in one wee post!

I can&#039;t add much to the brilliant comments above; I just wanted to say it&#039;s good to read posts like these often. It doesn&#039;t matter how well we know the theory; you need to keep drinking your whole life, absorbing and replenishing this way of thinking for ever.
.-= janice´s last post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Sharingthejourneycouk/~3/fdBwFSImWOY/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The House of the Thousand Horrormoans&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s good to be back &#8211; and what an excellent post to find when I visited! A life coach&#8217;s guide to life in one wee post!</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t add much to the brilliant comments above; I just wanted to say it&#8217;s good to read posts like these often. It doesn&#8217;t matter how well we know the theory; you need to keep drinking your whole life, absorbing and replenishing this way of thinking for ever.<br />
<span class="cluv"> janice´s last post&#8230;<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Sharingthejourneycouk/~3/fdBwFSImWOY/">The House of the Thousand Horrormoans</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://theboldlife.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 06:44:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tess - all so true - it all boils down to us, indeed. No use pointing the finger!
.-= Robin´s last post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://letsliveforever.net/2009/09/immortality-of-the-body/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Immortality Of The Body&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tess &#8211; all so true &#8211; it all boils down to us, indeed. No use pointing the finger!<br />
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		<title>By: Barbara Swafford</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara Swafford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 05:04:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tess,

Like you, I love Dr. Phil&#039;s sayings. The &quot;how is that working&quot; is a great one and when he asks it, his guests are usually speechless. But, he does make them and his audience think. 

I totally agree with what you&#039;re saying. We are the ones who are responsible for what happens in our lives and how we react. I always find it fascinating to watch different people reacting to the same situation - their reactions range from panic to a shrug of the shoulders. 

I love the line, &quot;When we let go of expectations, old grievances, control or the need to be right we experience a shift or change in our energy.&quot;  So true.
.-= Barbara Swafford´s last post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/bloggingwithoutablog/DWWZ/~3/iLm-uasYTBs/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The 15 Minute Post&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tess,</p>
<p>Like you, I love Dr. Phil&#8217;s sayings. The &#8220;how is that working&#8221; is a great one and when he asks it, his guests are usually speechless. But, he does make them and his audience think. </p>
<p>I totally agree with what you&#8217;re saying. We are the ones who are responsible for what happens in our lives and how we react. I always find it fascinating to watch different people reacting to the same situation &#8211; their reactions range from panic to a shrug of the shoulders. </p>
<p>I love the line, &#8220;When we let go of expectations, old grievances, control or the need to be right we experience a shift or change in our energy.&#8221;  So true.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Barbara Swafford´s last post&#8230;<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/bloggingwithoutablog/DWWZ/~3/iLm-uasYTBs/">The 15 Minute Post</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://theboldlife.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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